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  • thefeistiestworm

    my roommate who is like. the most straight laced cis dude ever. just came into the living room and said "the masculine urge to get pregnant." then stood there for a second before leaving silently.

  • professorupdog

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    You’re doing what to your roommate??

    • Jul 24 15,391 notes
  • awkwxrdapple

    Are you ok with someone using they/them pronouns for you if they're unsure (either online or irl)?

    yes, I use they/them anyway

    yes, I don't use they/them but it doesn't bother me

    no, I'd prefer they guess with she/her or he/him because it's obvs how I present

    no (another reason)

    My mind wandered and I got curious... please reblog if you want to so it can get a bit further <3

    • Jul 23 6,158 notes
    nounless this is a blanket policy its just plain misgenderingeven as a blanket policy its misgendering honestlybecause there is no way around accidental misgendering'they' is continually getting more and more gendered. its no longer just a hypothetical person and it's no longer just pluralit's can mean null and it can mean poly and it can mean a bunch of other thingsthe key to trans acceptance isn't degendering everyone. the key is being literate in trans culture and being graceful when asked to changeto me an unsure cis person calling me 'they' isn't much better than calling me 'it'just ask if youre unsure
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